how life is

do you ever say to yourself that you are supposed to be doing this or doing that. your life is supposed to be a certain way and your goals are clearly defined. i used to be that way. i had every goal laid out-- married at 27- hopefully a child by 30. house, car, job, husband. everything was set. and then life changed. i have finally come to accept that this- this moment- this time- this person is exactly who i am supposed to be and how my life is supposed to be. yes i am sure there will be changes and yes there are always going to be ups and downs- there always have been and none of that has changed- but this person- this me is exactly who i am supposed to be. what an amazing concept.